Being a mother is great whether its your first or fifth time. The experience is very personal and intriguing a huge part of the time. The journey would be so much easier if someone acknowledged it. You are doing your best except just when you think you deserve some rest , the baby starts crying. This prompts you to gather your strength and put the back to sleep only for that loud shriek from your backyard to alarm you again. A wrestle mania show would have been appreciated if it wasn’t live between your kids and no one made you a referee. Then you remember that you have left a task halfway and you would have been through if it were not for that phone call from school reminding you of a meeting . The food almost got burned . What’s worse is that its just the start.
As a mother you’ll be surprised at how busy your schedule always is. That is why you need to reclaim your life back. You are giving a lot to others, so much so that you do not have time for yourself. This is the perfect time to take a break. It is a good time to schedule in some me time and have everyone including your kids respect that. You do not have to know how to dance to make a move so do it anyway. Listen to the music you like. The thing about people who always have something to say about your kitchen sink is that they could be of help if you ask nicely. What better way is there to spend a weekend with some of your friends. It would be a great idea to start making friends if you have none. The point is optimize the help that you get .
Most mothers neglect themselves and their health because their time is limited. With a lot to be done good use of time will see you achieve more . Your health is the first priority because if its poor then you are not going to deliver properly. You may not have an hour to spend in the gym but with kettle bell exercises you could stay fit with half of the time. The benefits of exercise may be achieved by running after your kids while playing or running up and down the stairs . The trick is to never let go of a good old balanced diet with just a bit of healthy fats. Life as you may realize is a riveting tale of twists and turns and only those that approach it with perhaps a little bit of humor get to enjoy it. While their might be a lot of advice extended to you the point is settling for what works and deliberately ignoring the others.